Marriage is hard, and it is impossible to know
what your partner needs from you without being told. These are some common
issues that many married couples face, and hopefully, this list will make that
a little bit easier.
1. You need time alone
Just as your wife needs time alone, you also
need time to yourself. This could be time spent reading, going for a walk, or
just sitting in silence. This is necessary to recharge your batteries and help
you stay emotionally balanced.
2. You need physical affection
In the same way that your wife needs physical
affection, you also need to feel desired. This could be through touch, sex, or
just spending time with her. Feeling wanted by your wife is important to you and
makes you feel loved.
3. You need to feel needed
Just as your wife needs to feel needed, you
also need to feel needed. This could be through doing household chores, taking
care of the kids, or just being there for her when she needs you. Feeling
needed by your wife makes you feel valuable and important.
4. You need to feel loved
Above everything else, you need to feel loved
by your wife. This could be through words, touch, or just spending time with
her. Feeling loved by your wife makes you feel secure and happy.
5. You need to feel appreciated
Finally, you need to feel appreciated by your
wife. This could be as simple as telling her "thank you" when she
does something nice for you. You also need her to feel like she's your best
friend and that you can share anything with her.